Frustration in Youngsters

Yesterday I read news that, there is frustration is going on higher side in young generation. The question is arising why? When there are all facilities, luxurious, easy life. Our all desire fulfilled in one demand, parents are providing security, fulfilling all desire they are trying their best to provide all the things which they not got in their life.

There are so many faces of this question, social, economical, and cultural. Presently in society, where we are leaving, we lost honesty, faith & trusts in relationships, we lost the warm and sense of security which we were getting from relations. Today you observed that in any place, such as in office, in society one must have to be on alerts, one should be careful about what he/she is talking, what you are sharing etc. It may be possible, if you will share your secrets problems with your colleagues or even with friends, he will take advantage of your situation. May be he will thrown you in the valley of troubles for his own benefits. In this competitive world the workplace are very sensitive in this regard, you can’t able to share your single secrets with your colleague, who says that he will not take advantage, after catching your weak points.

Economically everyone wants to get more “Ye Dil Mange More” no one satisfied in what he is earning/ getting. Being a progressive is not bad, but without doing creative only burning oneself is certainly harmful.

Yes we are forgetting our culture today. Respecting elders, prying God, where is that gone? Very easily girls serve themselves to enjoy sex. Today with X and another day with Y is tradition going on in girls and in boys. If we got someone better then we easily, professionally left old one. We all wants instant then, where we will get sense of security in relation, where we will get warm, real love, trusts. We want sex from someone and love from someone. Like vegetable we are choosing our partners, friends.

To overcome the stress level mediation is best way, but at the same time we have to change our attitude. If you have not capacity to give someone, if you have not capacity to spread joy then please don’t snatched and don’t spread misery. Be happy and keep attitude to spread happiness, joy, love and smile all over.

Sharad Pant
Program Manager
Civil Line
Jhansi
INDIA

Livelihood Development

Livelihood development is really interesting field of social work. The person really wants work satisfaction then it lies in this field. As there is need of researcher and the person who can motivate and will show way the people to move forward.
In most of the cases the livelihood support only cater among the beneficiaries, then there was no follow up, after some days, month the beneficiaries was found as it is. In some cases without doing studies of livelihood support, the agencies/ Govt. provides support which was at last found lose of money and fund only. So if someone really wants to work for livelihood development of needy community, he/she must have to search the best appropriate option of livelihood, they have some long term plan, and also the options of livelihood which will be sustainable. This is not an easy job, this required lot of mental involvement & concentration on task, continuous follow up, innovation, new way of finding solutions for setbacks, patience to cross the hurdle came from the sides of Govt. Agencies and even from beneficiaries, exploring markets for the products all these are essentials tools for the success of Livelihood Development. There is lots of things to do, only need is to explore it and used for the development of community.

Sharad Pant
Program Manager
Habitat & Livelihood Development
Development Alternatives
Jhansi (UP)