Love

Different people drag out different meaning of Love. Some called it lust, some called it thrust for sex, some called it passion, but I want to call it sweet feeling, way of leaving life, devotion, sacrifice, and learn to leave for others. Loves teach to keep care for others. It teaches to understand this world. It is one feeling, when the person with you, you felt that you wins the entire world, all world is in your punch, you understand the meaning of true life, it is an extreme stage of joy, satisfaction and fulfill ness.

Love is very precious thing, which get some people, but it is tragedy the some people understand it and some play with it. It got someone for long time, up to end of life, someone for an hours, someone for few days it has no life. Love has no life, but it makes its place in your heart forever, you can’t able to wipe it out. When you are lonely, depressed remember your love, smile will be spread on your face. It is destiny that you will get company for long time or up to end of your life with whom you loved from the bottom of your heart.

Someone asked, how you felt that you are in love, its very simple, if you are very caring about someone, with his/ her voice you feel energetic, by seeing or only by his/her view you felt that you got something precious, only one touch of his/her create sensation in you, when he/she is with you, you felt sense of security, like as baby feels with its mother. These are all feelings which are beyond control and not counted on the basis of age, money, status, profession, creed & caste. That’s why love caught anyone in any age of his/ her life.

So, friends are you in love, then please take care of it, make a true love, without any fear, protect it from all ills, be honest & responsible then see you feel that you got a God, who is smiling and blessings on you. Are you thought that I am right or wrong, in both cases convey your views to understand me more.
Sharad Pant

Save Rhinos

Kaziranga National Park in Assam (INDIA) is presently again in lime light because of killings of Rhino mother and its baby for horn. Over a year there are 24 Rhinos killed by poachers. These poachers worked for the international agency there are brokers who lined up with local poachers and carried out the killings. On the name of protection of 900 sq km area of park, there is very less staff with Forest Department. The guards have not sufficient basic accessories such as long distance focus torch, communication equipments, arms and ammunition. On the other hand the poachers are well equipped with mobiles, arms and ammunition. They have jeep and high frequency search light.

The broker purchases the horn in 4.5 lakh to 7 lakh. It depends on the size and weight of the horn. Due to less protection to the national park it is very easy to the poachers to kill the Rhino for the horn. The dead body of Rhino with missing horn is common here. The people leaving around the park are found involved in the poaching. These poachers very easily rescued themselves in want of evidence. Even due to highway no 36 Forest Dept. is unable to track the new people.

To save this innocent animal Govt. of India should look after in this matter seriously , now the science reached on the moon and mercury then why this technology should apply to monitor the Rhinos. The killing of Rhinos shows the inefficiency and negligence of the Forest Department, State Govt of Assam, Ministry of Environment and wild life and Govt. India. It is not hard to get the assistance of local populace the save the Rhinos. If we will link their livelihood with tourism, if we will convinced them that “if there is Rhinos there will Tourists”, people will assist the forest Dept to save the Rhinos. Even through tourism Forest Department will get revenue and they can able to manage workforce for them. At the same time provision of strict punishment should be made for poachers also. But to do all these things it requires will & zeal. If we really want to stop the killings of this innocent animal then we have to create pressure on State & Govt. of India for taking strict action again poaching and for providing necessary security, electronic monitoring facility to the park. Otherwise one day will come, when Rhinos will vanish from Kaziranga and we were constrained to see its picture only.

The Incidents

The incidents may be good or bad happens in everyone’s life. Good experiences strengthen the moral, it increases the confident and lead person towards the successful life, and it provides opportunity to leave every moment of life joyfully and lively. On the other hand bad experience creates bitterness in life, it makes life dull and the person turned into pessimist, he feels life is like burden. He pulls his days and pushes his life ahead.

Incidents of bad & good got in relation, between blood relation, in friendship and in love. Good experience in all these relations tends person to leave life with positive thoughts. But the bad experience in above all creates hollow ness in the person’s life. The person thought that this world is not worth to leave, it is not his place, and he is not fit to survive in this world. The person feels lonely, he not found anyone around him whom he will trust and share his good & bad. This hollow ness, lonely ness tends the person to thought about quitting this world.

But in this selfish world ones should have to prepare himself to face betray & bad experience with smiling face. Forgive ness is the best remedy on this disease. If you will learn to forgive then half problem will be solved, at the same time you should have to adopt ‘Chankaya (Kautiliya) Niti’ in your business, you should have to be alert on the movement of people around, never the less you must include it in your habit. The straight, tall trees are looking good but in big storm they fall first. Person should have to keep his policy & nature flexible. Some incidents are really painful but unforgettable, when we tried to forgive it intentionally, it sit on our head and constrained our brain to think about the incident again and again. Although, it is compulsory to leave this God gifted life, may be by crying or by smiling, the choice is yours!

The Manager

The men who have guts to manage the situation, who have skill to turn the situation in his favour and lead his team to achieve the set goal is the real Manager. There are different Managers working in different fields, now a day Manager has called “Team Leader” also. There are event manager who is responsible for organize the events and to accomplish it successfully. In NGO and in oil and infrastructure companies there are Program Managers who are responsible to run their project as per the program objectives to achieve desired set goals within the stipulated time period. The person who have great confidence, skill to judge the situation, skill to read the people and skill to keep the situation in his favaour was seen a successful manager.

Sometime I thought that there should be course for ‘Life Manager”. In this course the person should be trained in how to lead his life in better way. How to survive & save himself/herself & his/her beloved, in the bunch of cunning & lofty people? How to lead the life towards joy and happiness? How to keep emotionally intact, so that no one could take advantage by making emotionally fool? How to read & choose right kind of people around us? It was observed that if the person is good “Life Manager” then 100% he is a best professional Manager.

So are you thinking to start the course for ‘Life Manager’ for those people who thoughts that they are not worthy to leave in this cunning world, they will not survive in this world with what the skill-set they have. If “Yes” then inform me there are so many students available for this course.

Frustration in Youngsters

Yesterday I read news that, there is frustration is going on higher side in young generation. The question is arising why? When there are all facilities, luxurious, easy life. Our all desire fulfilled in one demand, parents are providing security, fulfilling all desire they are trying their best to provide all the things which they not got in their life.

There are so many faces of this question, social, economical, and cultural. Presently in society, where we are leaving, we lost honesty, faith & trusts in relationships, we lost the warm and sense of security which we were getting from relations. Today you observed that in any place, such as in office, in society one must have to be on alerts, one should be careful about what he/she is talking, what you are sharing etc. It may be possible, if you will share your secrets problems with your colleagues or even with friends, he will take advantage of your situation. May be he will thrown you in the valley of troubles for his own benefits. In this competitive world the workplace are very sensitive in this regard, you can’t able to share your single secrets with your colleague, who says that he will not take advantage, after catching your weak points.

Economically everyone wants to get more “Ye Dil Mange More” no one satisfied in what he is earning/ getting. Being a progressive is not bad, but without doing creative only burning oneself is certainly harmful.

Yes we are forgetting our culture today. Respecting elders, prying God, where is that gone? Very easily girls serve themselves to enjoy sex. Today with X and another day with Y is tradition going on in girls and in boys. If we got someone better then we easily, professionally left old one. We all wants instant then, where we will get sense of security in relation, where we will get warm, real love, trusts. We want sex from someone and love from someone. Like vegetable we are choosing our partners, friends.

To overcome the stress level mediation is best way, but at the same time we have to change our attitude. If you have not capacity to give someone, if you have not capacity to spread joy then please don’t snatched and don’t spread misery. Be happy and keep attitude to spread happiness, joy, love and smile all over.

Sharad Pant
Program Manager
Civil Line
Jhansi
INDIA

Livelihood Development

Livelihood development is really interesting field of social work. The person really wants work satisfaction then it lies in this field. As there is need of researcher and the person who can motivate and will show way the people to move forward.
In most of the cases the livelihood support only cater among the beneficiaries, then there was no follow up, after some days, month the beneficiaries was found as it is. In some cases without doing studies of livelihood support, the agencies/ Govt. provides support which was at last found lose of money and fund only. So if someone really wants to work for livelihood development of needy community, he/she must have to search the best appropriate option of livelihood, they have some long term plan, and also the options of livelihood which will be sustainable. This is not an easy job, this required lot of mental involvement & concentration on task, continuous follow up, innovation, new way of finding solutions for setbacks, patience to cross the hurdle came from the sides of Govt. Agencies and even from beneficiaries, exploring markets for the products all these are essentials tools for the success of Livelihood Development. There is lots of things to do, only need is to explore it and used for the development of community.

Sharad Pant
Program Manager
Habitat & Livelihood Development
Development Alternatives
Jhansi (UP)